Bella Swan Cullen
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Yes, I am aware of that. Personally, I would be curious to see what conclusions about their relationship, Bella's socialization and such that she reached on her own and then I would discuss these issues with her. Even in the Twilight universe their relationship is not particularly healthy.
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i agree. but i think i would not give them to her until she was a certain maturity level, that she could listen to my views on the same thing. because you know if she reads it too young she'll fall for edward and idolize bella and that will be that. which is not necessarily healthy.
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Wow! We had this same discussion in my book club (it was the meeting that got me to finally read Twilight in the first place!) I'm fine with both of my daughters -- ages 17 and 13 -- reading it, but ...maybe because I know that neither one of them ever would (my 17 yr old tends to shun anything I'm that into, and the ADHD 13 yr old has the attention span of a gnat.)holdingoutforjacob wrote:
i am curious as to everyone's opinion though, because i was thinking about this. would you let your young daughter read this series?? if so, how young?? would you explain anything about it to her??
One woman in my group was appalled that Bella was lying to Charlie and letting him sneak in her room and spend the night all the time...but I don't really think SM is really condoning that sort of behavior in real life. I maintain that IF, and only IF, either of my girls were to fall in love with a 100 year old, totally harmless vampire, I would let the sneaking-in slide. Nothing immoral was going on, and Bella knew it never would. That would be my only concern with any of my kids having a sleep-over with a boy/girlfriend. Edward spending 8 hours watching Bella toss and turn and talk in her sleep isn't exactly a nerve-wracking, tempting activity. But since there are (of course) no real life Edwards to keep a firm handle on keeping both of their virtues intact, co-ed sleepovers are (of course) out of the question. Even my 13 year old knows that is a foregone conclusion.
In the Twilight Universe, Bella lies to Charlie for extremely good reasons --- reasons that are 100% fictional. I tend to think that the books are for those who can discern the difference between reality and fantasy, and that those who can't discern the difference wouldn't really be interested in The Saga anyway.
In fact, I would love for all 3 of my kids (the idea of my 14 yr old son reading Twilight is too funny to think about) to read the books, just to be able to discuss and debate the merits of the story development, and each characters pros and cons.
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Well i am not really thinking about kids at the age of 21 lol way too soon!
But i know if i have a daughter i would defintly have her read the Twilight Series. I think i would do this whole big thing about it because of how much the series has helped me and i know i would want it to help her. I would probably have her read it in high school. When she was old enough to truly understand it and get the whole effect of it. Then i would discuss it with her and see what she gets from the series.
I know it is somthing i think about that is one of the reasons i keep all my books is becuase i want my children to experiance them too.
I think if i have a boy and he is into reading then i would have him read Twilight as well.
But i know if i have a daughter i would defintly have her read the Twilight Series. I think i would do this whole big thing about it because of how much the series has helped me and i know i would want it to help her. I would probably have her read it in high school. When she was old enough to truly understand it and get the whole effect of it. Then i would discuss it with her and see what she gets from the series.
I know it is somthing i think about that is one of the reasons i keep all my books is becuase i want my children to experiance them too.
I think if i have a boy and he is into reading then i would have him read Twilight as well.
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I agree with holdingoutforjacob that the level of maturity is the most critical factor for exposing children to fantasy. Some children have a firmer grasp on reality than their parents, and some are more mature! In my mind maturity is being able to:
glstewart, keep the hope alive! My 17-yr-old son started reading Twilight after listening to me read the series to my husband while driving on long trips! Your 14-yr-old may surprise you some day!
- understand not only the family rules, but the reasons behind the rules
accept responsibility for their actions, and
make goals and discipline themselves to work towards those goals.
glstewart, keep the hope alive! My 17-yr-old son started reading Twilight after listening to me read the series to my husband while driving on long trips! Your 14-yr-old may surprise you some day!
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Well-said! And, incidentally, Bella's a great example of someone more mature than her own mother.Esme echo wrote:I agree with holdingoutforjacob that the level of maturity is the most critical factor for exposing children to fantasy. Some children have a firmer grasp on reality than their parents, and some are more mature! In my mind maturity is being able to:
A child that grounded will understand that what is okay in a work of fantasy is not necessarily okay in real life.
- understand not only the family rules, but the reasons behind the rules
accept responsibility for their actions, and
make goals and discipline themselves to work towards those goals.
Wow! Very cool. You'll have to let us know what he thinks of them. For that matter, I'd be interested to know your husband's perspective as well.Esme echo wrote:glstewart, keep the hope alive! My 17-yr-old son started reading Twilight after listening to me read the series to my husband while driving on long trips! Your 14-yr-old may surprise you some day!
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I'm in a debate with another co-worker over this. The movie is coming out in two months and I saw the trailer. It shows that bella has a walkman. Pic below. Did she have a walkman in the book? I don't remember anything about that.
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She had a cd player but that was it. And she only had it at home.
It think they are just bringing a new element to the movie. I mean a lot of us walk around with i-pods and zunes and what nots now. So they are just making it so it is more relatable. i guess.
It think they are just bringing a new element to the movie. I mean a lot of us walk around with i-pods and zunes and what nots now. So they are just making it so it is more relatable. i guess.
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I have a question about Bella's age. I thought in America, students usually graduate on the year when they're 18. Bella seemed to graduate at the year she turned 19 . Does it means she started school late?
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American schools have a "cut-off date," that determines whether a child is old enough to start school in the fall. The date varies from district to district, but if Bella's California school had a date of, say, September 4 as the cut-off date, then Bella would not have started first grade until she was already six--nearly seven.
Bella was born 13 Sep 1987. She turned six in 1993--presumably after the school's cut-off date--so she started first grade in 1994 just a few days before her seventh birthday. 1994 + 12 yrs of schooling = 2006 = 19 years old. Does that make sense?
Actually, starting a year later is an advantage in many cases. We started our eldest son a year after his peers; it was the best decision we ever made. On the other hand, I know parents who have suffered along with their child for 12 years because they didn't wait an extra year. So Bella was at a social/emotional/physical advantage in school--being older than most of the other children. (And first to get her driver's license! )
Bella was born 13 Sep 1987. She turned six in 1993--presumably after the school's cut-off date--so she started first grade in 1994 just a few days before her seventh birthday. 1994 + 12 yrs of schooling = 2006 = 19 years old. Does that make sense?
Actually, starting a year later is an advantage in many cases. We started our eldest son a year after his peers; it was the best decision we ever made. On the other hand, I know parents who have suffered along with their child for 12 years because they didn't wait an extra year. So Bella was at a social/emotional/physical advantage in school--being older than most of the other children. (And first to get her driver's license! )
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