sometimes arrogance has its place....like that example!! one of my favorite edward moments ever, fyi.Esme echo wrote:I have to agree with malaz that when Edward faced the Volturi with arrogance, I was delighted! I never doubted the Cullens would triumph, and I loved seeing Edward give them a taste of their own attitude.
And I sort of follow what malaz is saying about tolerating--even enjoying--misbehavior in my fiction characters that I wouldn't tolerate in my real world. So, Edward spending most nights with Bella, their passionate kissing, his overbearing or controlling behavior, his arrogance, etc.--none of which I would fail to react strongly to in real life--merely serve as plot devices to me. I guess I am more concerned with the overall feel of the story than whether the characters are admirable in every way.
Please don't yell at me, but this is one of those areas where longer years of experience color my attitude. I've seen a lot of behavior by a wide variety of people. I'm much less idealistic than when I was younger; idealism is good, but I've found that experience tempers it in good ways. So, a lot of what Edward does that makes some younger readers crazy, I shrug off, 'cause I know it's just a blip in his development, and he'll outgrow his poor judgment. I'm a lot more tolerant and forgiving than I used to be.
i agree with that as well, i do the same with jacob, so i guess again it just comes down to what irks you most. i have no tolerance for know-it-all's or controlling behavior, so that bothers me in edward. but i understand what you are saying malaz, definitely. and i am so sorry about your computer, mine does the same thing. a lot.
esme echo, i agree with your thoughts on age, sort of, because i agree that your experiences with different types of people make a HUGE difference. but i think that's not so much age related as experience related. i am much younger than you, but i understand fully and completely WHY edward does what he does, and i think he has all the potential in the world.
btw, you are still a rather idealistic person - it's lovely! many of my high-school-age friends are cynical and jaded, i find it sad. it makes me happy to know that age doesn't beget cynicism or arrogance in all people.