1. What is Bella weeping for during that long night of mourning? Is Jake at the forefront of her mind or is she grieving for the humanity she is giving up? Do you think Edward knows what she is mourning over? What are the “adjustments” Bella has made which allow her to move on in the morning? The part of her that loved Jake is morning Jake. Edward thinks she's crying for Jake. The adjusted herself by burying the part of her that was screaming for Jake.
2. Why does Edward suddenly change his mind in the meadow? Is his about-face a response to what Bella has been saying about their wedding plans? What does it have to do with Bella’s grief the night before? Is his reaction disproportionate? He realized that he had been pushing her to do thinks she did not want to do. That Bella lives her life for her loved ones not herself. I does have to do w little with the grief the night before in that it made him think about his decision to leave her is what caused all that in the first place. He had been making all the decisions and she had just been following along and he was going to stop and let her make the choices from then on. Yes in a way it is disproportionate. Aside from leaving which I don't think he should have ever done. All of his stances on everything else have played out well. Given Bella a different view of things and allowed her to figure out what she wanted.
3. Why does Bella insist on waiting and doing everything as they planned? Does she feel differently about marrying Edward now? Or is she just determined to do things correctly? Which considerations do you think weigh most heavily on her: eg. saying her goodbyes, giving Edward the wedding he dreams of, having a care for his soul, committing herself publicly to him before becoming a vampire....or any others you can think of? Bella is Bella self sacrifficing to a fault. She doesn't really feel different about the wedding but it is who she is to give Edward what he wants. She does not want to take any chances with his soul even though I don't believe she thinks it is at risk as he does. I thinks what weighs most in all this is giving everyone a chance to say goodbye.
4. Who do you think is actually right about what would be best for them here, Edward or Bella? Well Bella agreed with him in the end so they both are. I totally got why he wanted to marry her I'm glad she finally agreed
5. The last chapter of Eclipse doesn’t leave us with the upbeat feeling you might expect when a book ends with its hero and heroine planning their wedding. Does the faintly elegiac note on which it closes make sense? Did it bother you? Did it make you worry whether Bella had made the right choice? The first time I read Eclipse I thought it was a waste of time. Like A lot should have been edited into New Moon or something. The end of the book was the only thing that held any meaning for me. This is the direction I had always wanted the characters to go so yes it made sense and no it didn't bother me. (BYW reading it again it was so not a waste, the character development here is wonderful)

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