Re: The Dating Thread -- take 3
Posted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 5:09 pm
CONTESSA:
I don't think you should totally rule E out because he cheated on A with you. It's obvious that A was treating him badly and you knew how you felt about him and you could guess how he felt about you. Sometimes when you don't have the strength or heart to end an unhappy relationship, you still want more. I don't blame him for kissing you. And I'm sure you enjoyed it. ;] But if you were in his position, you might have done the same thing. That doesn't make you a "cheater." It makes you human. Now, if they had been really happy together and he just kissed you for no reason, then that's totally unacceptable. But put some perspective on the situation. :]
CHELSEEUH:
It's totally not weird that you miss him already. It happens. But don't worry, I'm sure you'll see him again soon. It seems to me that you two have been getting to know each other and if that continues, I'm sure a more intimate friendship (at least) will come out of it. Just try and make it through these two weeks. You can do it. ;] :]
ANNA:
Hahahaha boys just kind of exist... How simple that makes life, really. Haha. Nice question, too. I can't really answer it, though... Nothing I came up with was as good as something Bac said! :]
BAC:
That's so cute! Your romantic life was highly creative! That must have been nice haha. :]
GENNY:
Tom was being such a jerk! That's awful! Why on earth would he say something like that? It's beyond me. But boys will be boys... But that art photo thing sounds really cool! How're the party plans coming? :]
CHELSEA:
I'm sorry your parents are so whack about dating! Bummer! Hopefully you can ease them into it, though. ;] And your epiphany was great. You're absolutely right, and I'm glad that you could come to that conclusion on your own. :] So how IS Tyler? ;]
Update:
I feel horrible. YUCK YUCK YUCK. I don't even know why.
Andy brought his money today and they wouldn't accept it. NOT COOL. I don't know what we're going to do... I'm thinking about giving up and just going with my friend Megan... But I don't know. BOO.
We had a major tickle session today, though. He was texting during our Shakespeare scene performances. And our teacher always yells at him for it. (And guess who he was texting? If you said Cara, you're a genius.) So I just kept tickling him. It didn't make him stop. And yet I persisted. And then he got to my feet (I took off my shoes, unthinking) and that's like the only place I'm ticklish. So yeah, it was interesting haha. But he knew I felt bad, and I was like resting my head on his shoulder for a while because I was about to fall asleep. It was cute haha. I'm going to invite him to see my show Friday night. I doubt he'll come, since it's just New Works. But I'll invite him anyway.
Other than that, boys are good. Joey's and my scene went over well with our teacher. But she said we didn't "connect" as characters. Which is surprising, considering that we're best friends... Hahah. And I saw Patrick today, too. Which was great. Haha. I love that kid. And Will tried to have a whole conversation with me about penises... Yeah, I don't know...
Haha so I guess it's been a good day.
We have to take the ACT tomorrow, though. :[ Which sucks because I don't need a better score. I might just bomb it, especially if I don't feel good. But then again, I probably won't let myself do that...
I don't think you should totally rule E out because he cheated on A with you. It's obvious that A was treating him badly and you knew how you felt about him and you could guess how he felt about you. Sometimes when you don't have the strength or heart to end an unhappy relationship, you still want more. I don't blame him for kissing you. And I'm sure you enjoyed it. ;] But if you were in his position, you might have done the same thing. That doesn't make you a "cheater." It makes you human. Now, if they had been really happy together and he just kissed you for no reason, then that's totally unacceptable. But put some perspective on the situation. :]
CHELSEEUH:
It's totally not weird that you miss him already. It happens. But don't worry, I'm sure you'll see him again soon. It seems to me that you two have been getting to know each other and if that continues, I'm sure a more intimate friendship (at least) will come out of it. Just try and make it through these two weeks. You can do it. ;] :]
ANNA:
Hahahaha boys just kind of exist... How simple that makes life, really. Haha. Nice question, too. I can't really answer it, though... Nothing I came up with was as good as something Bac said! :]
BAC:
That's so cute! Your romantic life was highly creative! That must have been nice haha. :]
GENNY:
Tom was being such a jerk! That's awful! Why on earth would he say something like that? It's beyond me. But boys will be boys... But that art photo thing sounds really cool! How're the party plans coming? :]
CHELSEA:
I'm sorry your parents are so whack about dating! Bummer! Hopefully you can ease them into it, though. ;] And your epiphany was great. You're absolutely right, and I'm glad that you could come to that conclusion on your own. :] So how IS Tyler? ;]
Update:
I feel horrible. YUCK YUCK YUCK. I don't even know why.
Andy brought his money today and they wouldn't accept it. NOT COOL. I don't know what we're going to do... I'm thinking about giving up and just going with my friend Megan... But I don't know. BOO.
We had a major tickle session today, though. He was texting during our Shakespeare scene performances. And our teacher always yells at him for it. (And guess who he was texting? If you said Cara, you're a genius.) So I just kept tickling him. It didn't make him stop. And yet I persisted. And then he got to my feet (I took off my shoes, unthinking) and that's like the only place I'm ticklish. So yeah, it was interesting haha. But he knew I felt bad, and I was like resting my head on his shoulder for a while because I was about to fall asleep. It was cute haha. I'm going to invite him to see my show Friday night. I doubt he'll come, since it's just New Works. But I'll invite him anyway.
Other than that, boys are good. Joey's and my scene went over well with our teacher. But she said we didn't "connect" as characters. Which is surprising, considering that we're best friends... Hahah. And I saw Patrick today, too. Which was great. Haha. I love that kid. And Will tried to have a whole conversation with me about penises... Yeah, I don't know...
Haha so I guess it's been a good day.
We have to take the ACT tomorrow, though. :[ Which sucks because I don't need a better score. I might just bomb it, especially if I don't feel good. But then again, I probably won't let myself do that...