I think an interesting way to approach this is to look at other discussions concerning Edward leaving in NM, and was he justified in doing so or is it possible to at least understand why he did that? In those discussions you actually see a lot of agreement concerning what had happened and the basic facts surrounding it. Most of that discussion revolves around Edward's judgment. There is a great deal of agreement on Edward's character and what he must have been thinking, even between two people who are on the opposite sides of the fence. But what happened is something that everyone sees coming and appears to flow naturally out of his character. After that, you can get into major disputes over whether he should have found a way to avoid that or at least not hurt Bella so much or whether or not he should have at least checked up on her periodically.Tornado wrote:That's a very good point, corona. Since it's clear that Bella's intention was to leave Forks as soon as she'd graduated, would she have been around Jacob long enough to form that kind of a relationship with him? If Edward didn't exist, there would be no reason for her to stay in Forks that long. Jacob is still very young if Edward isn't there to trigger the wolf gene, so would he ever be mature enough for her while she's going to high school? Probably not. That does make a non-supernatural relationship between them even less likely.corona wrote:And I know this is nit-picky, but I don't see Bella as being inexorably drawn to Jacob romantically any time soon in that other world where Edward doesn't exist. Maybe give it three to four years when Jacob finally graduates high school, and as long Bella hasn't found someone else by then. Otherwise, I don't see them getting together on some natural path while the age difference is so significant between them unless something really unusual somehow manages to jump start that relationship. Personally, I think SM may well have started Jacob off a little order if she had known in advance what she had planned for him. Who knows, maybe even the werewolves massive growth spurts were originally inspired by needing to advance Jacob's apparent age in order to make their relationship believable.
Yes, I also had trouble with all the lines about Jacob being soulmate and the sun and natural as breathing. It's pushed to such an extent that it gives rise to the belief that Bella is making a mistake in choosing Edward. Perhaps this was why more emphasis was made in the movie version on Bella feeling that she was born for a supernatural life. It's just a pity they felt they had to sideline Edward to make the point. Truly, with all that "easy as breathing" stuff and making Edward look like nothing more than the convenient vessel by which Bella enters the supernatural world, is it any wonder the movie version of Eclipse made Edward look so impotent?
The only saving grace was when Jake said, during his goodbye scene with Bella, "he's not as perfect as you think he is", and she replied, "I know who he is". That was an emphasis that I felt was missing from the book, Bella making it clear to Jake that she knows better than him who Edward is, and she accepts him and loves him for that. I wished that line had been in the book.
But it's here, when you get to the TGDS and its aftermath, that even the basic understanding of what happened and its meaning is disputed. With Edward leaving, the plot flows from the character. With Bella and Jacob it just always felt more artificial to me, caused by having a plot point dominate the story and then distorting the characters until you finally lead them to the resolution you were wanting to make.
Some people were perfectly fine with it. It was a personal sticking point for myself, but that was my issue.
I would not dispute that what was accomplished was very important. Bella becomes fully aware of the sacrifices she has to make, Jacob finally understands that there is nothing more he can do, and Edward can now see that Bella truly wants to stay with him forever. But, just because there is a need to accomplish something doesn't mean that that need automatically confers believability to the resolution.
Anyways, Tornado, I know we have different viewpoints on some of these things. I happened to see EC as being very calculated, even as it also has some of the best scenes in the story. It was the need to ratchet Bella all the way up in a sudden burst to realizing that Jacob was also her soulmate, while also absolving her due to a total lack of self-knowledge, that didn't work for me. And a lot of these discussions end up talking about how important this realization was for Bella. I really do understand that, but the importance of this epiphany is a completely separate thing from the way that it was achieved and whether it was believable and we could relate to it.
And, truthfully, a lot of my anger with Jacob is actually misplaced. Much of the problem isn't Jacob, it's actually Bella and her unwillingness to be firm with him and set boundaries. This is something she apparently does figure out by the end of EC, but then is still unwilling to be firm with him in BD, even forgiving him automatically for wanting to kill her husband at the reception, to the extent she doesn't even bring it up when Jacob arrives.
By the end of NM, my connection with Bella was very strong and I thought I understood her perfectly. And that was a lot of the fun in those first books, that all of could so easily relate to her while she is confusing the hell out of Edward. By the time I got to BD, though, I think I understood exactly how Edward felt, which made the POV switch even more aggravating.