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Re: Boys are Confusing

Post by Miista Cullen » Sun Dec 28, 2008 8:16 am

debussygirl wrote:This is something that I got in an e-mail one time from a friend. Maybe it'll shed some light on boys.

-----------------------------------Girls-------------------------------
-------------------------are like apples on----------------------
-------------------trees. The best ones are at--------------
-------------the top of the tree. The boys don't----------
------- want to reach for the good ones because-----
--------they are afraid of falling and getting hurt.------
--------Instead, they get the rotten apples from-------
------- the ground that aren't as good, but easy.-----
---------So the apples up top think something's------
-----------wrong them when in reality they're-----------
-------------amazing. They just have to wait------------
-----------------for the right boy to come------------------
-----------------------along, the one---------------------------
-------------------------who's brave-----------------------------
---------------------------enough---------------------------------
--------------------------to climb---------------------------------
--------------------------all the------------------------------------
--------------------------way to-----------------------------------
------------------------- the top----------------------------------
----------------------of the tree.-------------------------------
Not to be a jerk or anything, but that is roughly three (3) years old. And comparing girls to apples is a bit lame. Of course, these words are not directly spoken to you, as you did not make this poem, but I'm just saying it in my perspective. But the poetry does have the meaning of what this thread is discussing.

Thanks for reading.

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Re: Boys are Confusing

Post by StupidxLamb » Sun Dec 28, 2008 8:29 am

Miista Cullen wrote: Not to be a jerk or anything, but that is roughly three (3) years old. And comparing girls to apples is a bit lame. Of course, these words are not directly spoken to you, as you did not make this poem, but I'm just saying it in my perspective. But the poetry does have the meaning of what this thread is discussing.

Thanks for reading.

Your regards,

-Miista.
I would have to say the same about your post.
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Re: Boys are Confusing

Post by talirhee » Sun Dec 28, 2008 9:53 am

StupidxLamb wrote:
Miista Cullen wrote: Not to be a jerk or anything, but that is roughly three (3) years old. And comparing girls to apples is a bit lame. Of course, these words are not directly spoken to you, as you did not make this poem, but I'm just saying it in my perspective. But the poetry does have the meaning of what this thread is discussing.

Thanks for reading.

Your regards,

-Miista.
I would have to say the same about your post.
Uhh, I wouldn't.
That was a hell bitchy post.

I wasn't exaclty the biggest fan of the poem, but still. Claws in!

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Re: Boys are Confusing

Post by EddieC » Sun Dec 28, 2008 10:26 am

"To each their own"

No need to attack other people's opinion, just state your own! I'm sure we're all old/mature enough to handle that =P
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Re: Boys are Confusing

Post by StickStones&&Techno » Sun Dec 28, 2008 3:39 pm

museicalking, EddieC, Miista Cullen
thanks for the help (:
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Re: Boys are Confusing

Post by StupidxLamb » Sun Dec 28, 2008 3:40 pm

talirhee wrote:
StupidxLamb wrote:
Miista Cullen wrote: Not to be a jerk or anything, but that is roughly three (3) years old. And comparing girls to apples is a bit lame. Of course, these words are not directly spoken to you, as you did not make this poem, but I'm just saying it in my perspective. But the poetry does have the meaning of what this thread is discussing.

Thanks for reading.

Your regards,

-Miista.
I would have to say the same about your post.
Uhh, I wouldn't.
That was a hell bitchy post.

No, no, you misunderstood me. :P You and I are on the same page.
I wasn't exaclty the biggest fan of the poem, but still. Claws in!
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Re: Boys are Confusing

Post by simple_love♫ » Sun Dec 28, 2008 11:57 pm

EddieC wrote:"To each their own"

No need to attack other people's opinion, just state your own! I'm sure we're all old/mature enough to handle that =P
i agree with you on that one. let's all calm down here.


i need to vent about this jerk of a guy friend that i have. so i was having a group get together with my friends and i invited my best guy friend. and it was a couple hours after everyone came and he hadn't shown up. so i called him and he didn't pick up. then my friend called him from her cell and he answered and she asked if he was coming and he was like "oh i can't" and i was ticked that he wasn't going to at least call and say he couldn't make it. then i ran into him today and he acted normal. so i ignored him. let's see if he'll catch the hint. grrr.
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Re: Boys are Confusing

Post by EddieC » Mon Dec 29, 2008 12:18 am

simple_love♫ wrote: i agree with you on that one. let's all calm down here.
^^ "To each their own" = <3
simple_love♫ wrote:i need to vent about this jerk of a guy friend that i have. so i was having a group get together with my friends and i invited my best guy friend. and it was a couple hours after everyone came and he hadn't shown up. so i called him and he didn't pick up.
Anyways, mmm, this might be just the difference between how boys mind react and girls mind act and work.

Actually, this might be just how different people prioritize things.

To this... "guy", blowing someone off without calling (my best friend is sorta like that) has many reasons: too busy, doesn't have access to a phone, too scared, too embarassed and etc.

And you calling him could be just bad timing, he's scared of you or millions of different reasons.
simple_love♫ wrote:then my friend called him from her cell and he answered and she asked if he was coming and he was like "oh i can't" and i was ticked that he wasn't going to at least call and say he couldn't make it. then i ran into him today and he acted normal. so i ignored him. let's see if he'll catch the hint. grrr.
Ahhh, well, with all of the situations up there, I don't think "lets see if he'll catch the hint" would be a good idea.

If he's acting like this, it all comes down to
1. He forgot and he's a jerk
2. He's too embarassed and thinks he can just glide over this
3. He's too scared to confront you so he hopes you think that you're not angry
4. He doesn't think it's a big deal

In all situations, he's really not considering what you're thinking about, I think he needs/should know, how you confront him is up to you though.

I do not suggest leaving it, it really hurts a friendship when you leave things out that the other party should know.

XD Eddie! PM me if all that was really weird
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Re: Boys are Confusing

Post by Miista Cullen » Mon Dec 29, 2008 1:22 am

talirhee wrote: Uhh, I wouldn't.
That was a hell bitchy post.

I wasn't exaclty the biggest fan of the poem, but still. Claws in!
Cry me a river. Just accept others perspective. Thanks for reading.

StickStones&&Techno wrote:museicalking, EddieC, Miista Cullen
thanks for the help (:
that was really elaborate (:
:] Your welcome. I hope everything works out with you and Eric. Thanks for reading.
simple_love♫ wrote: i need to vent about this jerk of a guy friend that i have. so i was having a group get together with my friends and i invited my best guy friend. and it was a couple hours after everyone came and he hadn't shown up. so i called him and he didn't pick up. then my friend called him from her cell and he answered and she asked if he was coming and he was like "oh i can't" and i was ticked that he wasn't going to at least call and say he couldn't make it. then i ran into him today and he acted normal. so i ignored him. let's see if he'll catch the hint. grrr.
Think of all the possibilities he couldn't have called you? He might of ran out of credit. Or maybe he was away from his phone whilst you were ringing, and when your friend rang, he might have been near his phone then. Etc. etc. Though he isn't a jerk, but a type of guy that finds the word 'sorry' to comprehend to others. I think he is sorry, but doesn't want to cause a scene or something. But hopefully, he does say sorry. "You cant change the past, but you can change the future"

Thanks for reading.

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Re: Boys are Confusing

Post by one_tuff_cupcake » Mon Dec 29, 2008 2:00 am

hi, umm... first time posting here so go easy on me(:

well here goes,
So my best guy friend tells me he likes me.(just for the record me and him are like extremely close. he basically knows me as well if not better then i know myself. So it wasn't like "omg! AWKWARD!" you know? it was more like... okay well that's.... nice. and then move on.) and when he told me it kind of brought out the feelings i have towards him. and well i started showing them more... everything was like ttly fine and then friday he just out of no where he says and i quote "I don't think i like you anymore" and i just asked are you sure and he said he was. so i'm just feeling ttly rejected now.
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